A Little Mistake That Cost A Woman Her Marriage

(and how to avoid the same mistake)

“Marie, will you marry me?”

He asked her on a romantic holiday in Europe.

She knew they'll have a wonderful time, but she didn't expect a ring.

Surprised, confused, shocked, and… in love. A hotpot of emotions went through her head.

But it's not like she had time to think.

After all, here they were… Cassis, a beautiful beach town in the south of France, after a romantic dinner, the moment was… magical… more.

And it's not like you get proposed every day.

As he gazed up at her with those blue green eyes of his… the sound of the sea, the scent of salt in the air, refreshing wind touching her face… 

For a moment, everything stopped.

“Yes” she said and laughed in disbelief. 

“I love you” he said and kissed her.

What else could she say?

Her family and friends were equally surprised.

Of course they were all beyond happy for her…

But they also couldn't stop wondering…

“Haven't they only been dating for like 8 months?!”

Marie knew what her friends were saying behind her back, but perhaps they were just a bit jealous.

Now she was planning her wedding!

Of course… she also knew that it was all probably happening too fast.

“But if he's the one he's the one.” she kept telling herself.

After all he cherished her, treated her so well, and… she hasn't dated anyone nice for a long time.

“I knew you're The One the moment I first laid eyes on you” he said in his wedding vow.

Their honeymoon? Well, it doesn't get much better than the Maldives…

Unfortunately, 

Only a year after Marie said “Yes” that night in Cassis… and only a few months after their honeymoon… He discovered another “One”.

Turns out Marie wasn't the only One for this schmoozer.

She couldn't talk to him. She went silent for days… “Why?” is the only thing going through her head.

You won't believe what he said when he finally came up to talk…

What happened?

“You changed… I was, just, expecting more out of this. You. Marriage. I just got bored and needed some excitement.”

He “just” lost interest in her…

And then he kept telling Marie about her... that other woman. How exciting she was. Different.

If Marie's story made me want to stab this dirtbag in the chest, she probably wanted to MURDER him on the spot.

But she didn't. She moved out. And they filed for divorce.

But what REALLY happened?

I'd lie if I told you it was only his fault…

It's not just that she said accepted his proposal.

After all he made it hard for her to say “no.”

While that little “yes” was a mistake, one she couldn't foresee — it's not this particular “yes” that cost Marie her marriage (I'll tell you which one it was in a moment).

There are countless similar cases that have worked well. You'll find couples that got married after only a year that have been together for 50 years or more.

What's their secret? And where did Marie go wrong?

A “Yes” To Marriage Must Be Built Upon A Strong Foundation of Initial “No's”

“Back in the day” of our parents and grandparents… It seems they had an easier time holding on to marriage.

The dynamic of relationships was different. Things were slower…

They had more time to think and set their relationship up for success.

No cell phones, so no worries about instant texting and instant responses. Being available 24/7.

No dating apps or social media for your man to be exposed to and distracted by photoshopped hotties, when his attention and eyes should be on You and You alone.

Their secret?

Our grandmothers didn't say “Yes” so easily to dating a guy who wasn't “qualified.” There was a kind of checklist of personality and behavioral traits of a “good man” — and if he didn't pass the checklist, he wasn't even CONSIDRED for the position of Husband.

OUT. Make space for Mr. Right.

Our grandmothers used proven-to-work dating rules and principles.

Why?

Because they worked.

(crazy thing is they work even better today)

What were these rules?

• men would always make the first move (to prove he's really interested),
• men would always pay for a date,
• men would come and pick you up at your home for a date (the more effort, the more qualified)
• men were expected to be gentlemen,
• women never chased or reached out first (a classic “No”)
• No to sex before the 3rd date (at least!)
• No kissing on the first few dates (let him wait and struggle),
• No to doing anything and Yes to the man doing nearly ALL the dating work (and thinking),

The fact is: women said “No” on average significantly more often than they said “Yes.”

But you need to know when to say YES and when to say NO!

The Right “No's” Gets You Closer To Dating The Right Guy The Right Way

Every strategic “No” is a “Yes” to your successful relationship and lasting marriage.

That's why smart women made it quite “hard” for a guy before he finally got a “yes” to dating and marrying them. He had to jump through a lot of hoops FIRST.

Make him work for your love!

Why Did He Get “Bored”?

I think you're getting to see where Marie went wrong…

Her real mistake: she allowed her mindset to trick her! 

Her flawed dating mindset made her SO eager to find a good guy and get a serious relationship…

In fact, she was so eager for love, that she said “yes” to nearly everything he proposed.

If you don't know what your modern-mindset is secretly doing behind your back — your relationship is in danger this very moment. And you probably have no idea.

One thing this flawed dating mindset does is it allows good men to turn bad and bad men to get worse — by not “qualifying” them before falling in love.

I'll show you on the next page how to qualify any man with my 4-step qualification test, but first let me show you how this works through Marie's case…

The little mistake that cost Marie her marriage:

There were no hoops for him to jump through. No barriers. No resistance.

She had no rules, no boundaries, no clear limits or expectations (this is crucial because men treat you the way you expect them to and allow them to).

This made Marie easy to “get.”

When there's no challenge, there's no glory. No feeling of pride, victory, admiration.

For a man to love you — he has to be continually challenged to win you over and conquer you. You need to remain a moving target. Again, you do this with rules. And the only way you can have them is if you eliminate your current flawed dating mindset.

One day he simply lost interest in her, and found interest in someone else. But it DID NOT happen overnight.

And this is what brings us all the way back to the source —

Marie failed to correctly qualify him BEFORE saying “yes” to going out on a date with him.

That's it. Let me repeat: she didn't qualify him correctly.

It's a chain of events that starts from one little mistake and grows like a snowball.

What could have saved her heart (and perhaps their relationship)?

A simple qualification-test would have pushed him away. And saved her years of heartache, embarrassment, and stress.

But when you have a flawed mindset, one mistake followes another…

I call these “relationship-killing” mistakes (and I share the 3 biggest one's on the following page).

And if Marie had sprinkled strategic No’s and barriers for him to deal with along the way… Obstacles that protect her from dating Mr. Wrong. This could have kept the FIRE OF DESIRE and interest burning in his heart… for her, and her alone.

This process would have been a source of deep, lasting satisfaction for him. Something he'd then fight tooth and nail to keep. Because he'd value her and respect their relationship in an entirely different way.

When To Say “Yes” and When To Say “No”

How do you know when it's time for a “Yes” and when it's a “No”?

It's something our grandmother's generation instinctively knew because they had a different belief system about dating.

How do you convince yourself of a decisive “no” when all you want to do is scream “Yes!” like Marie did that day in France?

It's tricky.

This is what proven rules and principles are for, to make rational decisions when emotions would otherwise push you in the gutter…

It's the kind of dating etiquette our grandmothers effortlessly used to make their marriages and relationship's last a lifetime.

It's also what helps you avoid the 3 most common relationship-killing mistakes I talk about on the following page. 

Click the button below and I'll show you how it works…

Sincerely yours,

Relationship Astrologer

P.S.

These are the same strategies that helped Marie bounce back stronger and better off than she could have imagined. (Only she had to survive another heartbreaking episode before finally learning her lesson.)

P.P.S.

The report I share with you on the following page is BEYOND powerful and unlike anything else you've ever seen or heard. 

I teach you many lessons and reveal many “brutal truths” about love, men and relationships — it's a long report and might take you an hour or more to read — but I know it may change your love life once and for all. 

The crazy thing is these “old school” rules and principles work even better today when almost no other woman is using them. Try and see for yourself.

I guess an hour of reading is a small price to pay for a lifetime of difference in the way men treat you. And I only hope you find it as useful as thousands of other women have.

MEET ANNA

“You can have the relationship you want!”

Anna Kovach is known as the most sought after relationships Astrologer and advisor to commitment-seeking women across the globe. Anna's guidance and astrological insights have helped countless women get the relationship they desire.

She is famous for saving 'failed' relationships, helping women secure their 'One' and showing seemingly incompatible couples “how to speak the same language.” 

She uses her gift and knowledge of Astrology & relationship psychology to help couples connect and gain an intense understanding of each other. All through the power of practical and accurate astrological advice that anyone can apply to their relationship — just without the hype, overcomplicated professional terminology or vague and confusing astro-speak.

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